People will either INSPIRE you or DRAIN you - choose carefully
People will either INSPIRE you or DRAIN you - choose carefully
Jim Rohn Once said that we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with.
Now, many people deny this fact, But research shows we are much more affected by our environment and those around us, than we would like to believe.
The people around you MATTER. There is an old proverb that reads "SHOW ME YOUR FRIENDS AND I WILL TELL YOU WHO YOU ARE."
While these statements aren't entirely true for everyone and we firmly believe that you can and you should out-perform everyone around you, it is true to some extent. It is true based on the law of averages and logic, which assumes you surround yourself with intention. Either with intention to remain the same or intention to push yourself to another level.
If we are the average of the 5 people we spend the most time with, what if those 5 people we spend the most time with have no ambition ? What if they are dragging us down ? How can we get around this statistic ?
Find a Coach or Mentor. Find many Coaches and many Mentors. See, this also applies to the people you spend time with in LEARNING. If you listen to Audio Tapes or Read Books from Great Teachers on a Daily basis, you are effectively spending time with them and they are influencing your life as well. Many entrepreneurs aim to be the smartest person in the room at all times. They want to be the most significant. They want to be the most successful. The "hardest worker" in the room BUT, if you are always the best in the room you won't grow, and if you're not growing you are dying. You are always surround yourself with those who are better than you in some way. Those who can learn from you in some way. That is how you get better. Just like the great competition brings out the best in great athletes, Great people bring out the best in you.
SURROUND YOURSELF WITH WINNERS. Surround yourself with people that have things you want. The people that will force you to RAISE YOUR OWN GAME, with people that will help PUSH YOU FORWARD. Not because they will give you hand outs but because seeing them live life at that higher level will force you to get there yourself. Not because they will only ever be positive with you. But because they will always be STRAIGHT with with you. WINNERS don't like hanging around with losers. YOU HAVE TO BE ON TOP OF YOUR GAME, TO PLAY AT THE TOP.
They say surround yourself with 9 losers and you will soon be the the tenth". Getting comfortable is the worst thing you can do, if you ever want to achieve anything of significance in life. The comfort zone is great......if you are happy to settle for less than you can be. It's not great if you want to reach the true potential in life. Get around those who are hungry. Get around those who want to leave their mark in this world! Those who want to make a difference in this world. They say misery loves company, well so does success. SUCCESS LOVES SUCCESSFUL COMPANY.
There's just less to choose from. There's nothing better than getting together with a group of winners AND WINNING. If someone has the fitness, health and body you want..... Get around that person or more people like that AND SOON THEIR STANDARDS WILL BECOME YOURS.
If someone has the health, business, happiness or life you want, Get around those people.
Get around the people that are living than a higher level than you. Get around those that have the wealth, home, happiness, relationships and life you want more of. Get in alignment with success by surrounding yourself with only those living at the highest level.
The people in your life will either Inspire you or Drain you - Choose carefully.
The people in your life will either inspire you to be greater than you are or DRAIN THE LIFE OUT OF YOU. CHOOSE CAREFULLY
Get in Chat Rooms or Communities where other share the same ambitions, but do not expect positive changes in your life, if you surround yourself with negative people. If you are only hanging around people who DRAG YOU DOWN those people who can always find a reason why IT CAN'T BE DONE, THAT WILL ALSO BECOME YOUR REALITY.
YOU WILL NEVER SEE A SUCCESSFUL PERSON hanging around with DREAM KILLER. If you want success hang around DREAM CHASERS. Find someone that is doing what you want to do. FOLLOW THEM CONSUME THEIR MATERIAL READ THEIR BOOKS LISTEN AND LEARN. The more you learn from these people the more you will become like these people.
Now, you might have to cut some negativity out of your life and IT WON'T BE EASY BUT WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM YOUR LIFE ? NEGATIVITY IS A VIRUS. YOU MUST GET IT OUT OF YOUR LIFE.
OTHERWISE
YOU WILL BE THE ONE WHO WILL SUFFER IN THE END
This is Ashley from Live your Dream and we support your dream!
Jim Rohn Once said that we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with.
Now, many people deny this fact, But research shows we are much more affected by our environment and those around us, than we would like to believe.
The people around you MATTER. There is an old proverb that reads "SHOW ME YOUR FRIENDS AND I WILL TELL YOU WHO YOU ARE."
While these statements aren't entirely true for everyone and we firmly believe that you can and you should out-perform everyone around you, it is true to some extent. It is true based on the law of averages and logic, which assumes you surround yourself with intention. Either with intention to remain the same or intention to push yourself to another level.
If we are the average of the 5 people we spend the most time with, what if those 5 people we spend the most time with have no ambition ? What if they are dragging us down ? How can we get around this statistic ?
Find a Coach or Mentor. Find many Coaches and many Mentors. See, this also applies to the people you spend time with in LEARNING. If you listen to Audio Tapes or Read Books from Great Teachers on a Daily basis, you are effectively spending time with them and they are influencing your life as well. Many entrepreneurs aim to be the smartest person in the room at all times. They want to be the most significant. They want to be the most successful. The "hardest worker" in the room BUT, if you are always the best in the room you won't grow, and if you're not growing you are dying. You are always surround yourself with those who are better than you in some way. Those who can learn from you in some way. That is how you get better. Just like the great competition brings out the best in great athletes, Great people bring out the best in you.
SURROUND YOURSELF WITH WINNERS. Surround yourself with people that have things you want. The people that will force you to RAISE YOUR OWN GAME, with people that will help PUSH YOU FORWARD. Not because they will give you hand outs but because seeing them live life at that higher level will force you to get there yourself. Not because they will only ever be positive with you. But because they will always be STRAIGHT with with you. WINNERS don't like hanging around with losers. YOU HAVE TO BE ON TOP OF YOUR GAME, TO PLAY AT THE TOP.
They say surround yourself with 9 losers and you will soon be the the tenth". Getting comfortable is the worst thing you can do, if you ever want to achieve anything of significance in life. The comfort zone is great......if you are happy to settle for less than you can be. It's not great if you want to reach the true potential in life. Get around those who are hungry. Get around those who want to leave their mark in this world! Those who want to make a difference in this world. They say misery loves company, well so does success. SUCCESS LOVES SUCCESSFUL COMPANY.
There's just less to choose from. There's nothing better than getting together with a group of winners AND WINNING. If someone has the fitness, health and body you want..... Get around that person or more people like that AND SOON THEIR STANDARDS WILL BECOME YOURS.
If someone has the health, business, happiness or life you want, Get around those people.
Get around the people that are living than a higher level than you. Get around those that have the wealth, home, happiness, relationships and life you want more of. Get in alignment with success by surrounding yourself with only those living at the highest level.
The people in your life will either Inspire you or Drain you - Choose carefully.
The people in your life will either inspire you to be greater than you are or DRAIN THE LIFE OUT OF YOU. CHOOSE CAREFULLY
Get in Chat Rooms or Communities where other share the same ambitions, but do not expect positive changes in your life, if you surround yourself with negative people. If you are only hanging around people who DRAG YOU DOWN those people who can always find a reason why IT CAN'T BE DONE, THAT WILL ALSO BECOME YOUR REALITY.
YOU WILL NEVER SEE A SUCCESSFUL PERSON hanging around with DREAM KILLER. If you want success hang around DREAM CHASERS. Find someone that is doing what you want to do. FOLLOW THEM CONSUME THEIR MATERIAL READ THEIR BOOKS LISTEN AND LEARN. The more you learn from these people the more you will become like these people.
Now, you might have to cut some negativity out of your life and IT WON'T BE EASY BUT WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM YOUR LIFE ? NEGATIVITY IS A VIRUS. YOU MUST GET IT OUT OF YOUR LIFE.
OTHERWISE
YOU WILL BE THE ONE WHO WILL SUFFER IN THE END
This is Ashley from Live your Dream and we support your dream!
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